Writing My Southern Roots
I was a teenager when my grandmother, aka "Nana," began to develop dementia. She'd been a sweet, proud, incredibly resourceful woman, and it was hard--especially as an adolescent-- to deal with her frequent forgetfulness and odd behaviors. But what really made an impression on me was they way she would suddenly stare into an empty corner, crying out for her long-lost father: Papa! Come back, Papa! Please! These Ghost Papa episodes brought to light a family history I hadn't known: The story of my grandmother's difficult coming-of-age in rural east Texas in the early 1900s, one that involved financial and physical hardship, the Spanish Influenza epidemic, and the disappearance of her beloved father when his family needed him most. It's a story not only of loss, but a betrayal that still traumatized my grandmother--and left its mark on me, too. There's the old adage, ...